You haven't found the love of your life yet, don't trust online dating, or don't have enough time to meet in a restaurant or movie? In recent years, a new format of establishing relationships - express dating - has become increasingly popular-is it worth trying this method of dating or is it not originally intended for finding a serious relationship?
What are fast dates like?
Quick date parties usually take place in cafes or clubs, there are several tables in the room, you get a name badge at the entrance, the goal is to start getting acquainted with the person sitting opposite, after a few minutes you move to another table and start communicating with a new interlocutor, and so on, in the evening you can thus "sort out" more than ten applicants, choose the one with whom you are most interested in communicating and continue your acquaintance in a calm atmosphere. Scientists believe that such a short time is quite enough for you to have a first impression of the interlocutor. As a rule, by the way, this first impression turns out to be correct, so at a speed dating party it is quite possible to find your destiny!
Such fast dating naturally has its pros and cons.
The positive aspects include:
they take up little time, and you can “go " on 10 or more dates in one evening;
you will not need to think about where to start a conversation, because such events are conducted by professional presenters, the very format of such communication is conducive to communication;
at such events, people gather who are really in an active search for relationships;
as a rule, groups are gathered according to common characteristics, for example, by age;
the situation when you do not like your interlocutor at express meetings is resolved very quickly, in any case, you will need to move to the next table;
you will be able to communicate in a relaxed atmosphere with someone who liked you;
a good way to pass the time, because even if you can not find the love of your life, then at least expand the circle of communication and meet people with whom in ordinary life you would hardly have met.
A little bit about the negative:
the frequent change of interlocutors resembles either a game or a conveyor belt, there is no time for romance;
as everywhere you can meet different people, someone comes to such events just to find adventures for the night;
getting used to it may seem difficult psychologically, especially if you do not have the experience of constant communication with a large number of people;
you need to be able to quickly adjust in communication from one person to another;